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The power of positive affirmations: How they can change your self-confidence and your life.

Writer's picture: Merle ReimersMerle Reimers

Do you often feel like your thoughts are holding you back? Do you find it difficult to define your boundaries and communicate this in good conscious? Old beliefs inhibit your growth and keep you small?

In a world often filled with negativity and self-doubt, positive affirmations can have transformative power. They provide a path to building your confidence, breaking negative thought patterns, and creating a fulfilling life. In this article, we´ll explore the power of positive affirmations and share practical tips for incorporating them into your everyday life.


Typewriter and peace of paper with "Be amazing" on it"

The power of words

Our thoughts and words create our reality. Around 60,000 to 70,000 thoughts go through each of our heads every day. Unfortunately, in everyday life, we often find ourselves in a negative spiral of thoughts that depresses our mood and our productivity. If we constantly tell ourselves, “I can´t do it,” then we believe it so much that we really can´t do it. This is also called a self-fulfilling prophecy. We cannot completely stop the flow of thoughts, but we can certainly determine what kind of thoughts we want to have in our lives. This is where positive affirmations come into play. These are short, concise statements aimed at promoting positive thoughts and beliefs. The word affirmation means something like “to confirm” or “to establish.” With the help of positive words, we can increase our self-love and self-confidence and lift our energy levels. So we vibrate at an energy level of abundance and thereby attract positive events, people, and things into our lives. By consciously repeating and internalizing these statements, we can reprogram our subconscious and cultivate a positive mindset.


How can I strengthen my self-confidence?

One of the main effects of positive affirmations is increasing your self-confidence. By encouraging and supporting ourselves, we can overcome self-doubt more easily and develop a strong sense of self-assurance. Examples of positive affirmations that can boost self-confidence include: “I am full of self-confidence and courage” or “I trust that I can overcome any challenge.” Be your own cheerleader! Words like “I am safe. I am okay. I am loved” can also regulate your nervous system.


How can I break negative thought patterns?

Negative thought patterns can prevent us from reaching our full potential and living a fulfilling life. By regularly practicing positive affirmations, we can break these negative patterns and develop a positive, constructive approach to thinking. Imagine your brain as a forest with lots of different trails. Your brain runs the same routes over and over again every day. By incorporating positive affirmations into your daily routines, you will actively develop new paths. And with each repetition, this path becomes more solid, and you feel safer and more comfortable. Since around 80% of our thoughts pass us by unconsciously, positive affirmations are great motivators that can make us more aware of our thought patterns, beliefs, and feelings. This makes it possible for us to recognize our behavioral patterns, think about them, and if necessary, change them. Positive affirmations help you replace your old patterns with new, liberating, positive, and inspiring ones that bring you closer to your goals in life. Affirmations can help you reprogram negative thoughts. Examples could be “I believe in myself and my abilities” or “I can separate myself from…”


How can I integrate positive affirmation into my everyday life?

To effectively integrate affirmations into your everyday life, it is important to develop a regular practice. This could be repeating affirmations daily during your morning routine or writing affirmations in a journal before bed. Once you have discovered the right affirmations for yourself, repeat them either loudly or in your head several times a day. They stick even better when you stand right in front of a mirror, looking deeply into your own eyes while repeating the chosen affirmation. You can also stick post-it notes on your mirror or closet door to remind you of this practice again and again. By making positive affirmations an integral part of our everyday lives, we can take full advantage of their transformative effects. Positive affirmations can help us achieve our desires and goals.


Secret ingredients: visualization and emotions

To increase the effect, it is helpful to vividly imagine the statements and feel the positive emotions associated with them. Visualize yourself in situations where you experience self-confidence and success, and combine this visualization with the appropriate affirmations. By consciously experiencing these positive emotions, you strengthen the effect of the affirmation on your subconscious.


What should I consider while choosing a positive affirmation?
  • You should always use positive wording. So avoid negatives; they only confuse our brains.

  • Use the first-person perspective. The words “I am…” are particularly powerful.

  • Choose an affirmation that feels realistic and harmonious.


Here are 20 affirmations that can serve as inspiration:

  • I am unique and valuable, just as I am.

  • I am proud of my achievements.

  • I am worthy of being loved and accepted.

  • I allow myself to develop my full potential.

  • I am worthy of fulfilling my own needs and dreams.

  • I am stronger than I think, and I am finding my way.

  • I deserve to be happy.

  • I am strong and full of energy.

  • Life is always working out for me.

  • Money flows for me.

  • I do my best every day and allow myself to learn.

  • I can make mistakes, forgive myself, learn from them, and grow.

  • I communicate clearly and respectfully in my relationships.

  • I can separate myself from…

  • I can take time for myself.

  • I am thankful for…

  • I breathe in and out deeply and let go of all tension.

  • I have confidence in myself.

  • I love myself and take care of my own needs.

  • I am wonderful the way I am.


Take one to three affirmations to start with. Take your time, and don´t put pressure on yourself. Remember, the full effect can only be achieved if you repeat it regularly. You should also use an affirmation that you completely identify with and associate with a good feeling so that it can anchor itself in your subconscious.


For how long do I have to use positive affirmations to see changes?

There is no proven time period that indicates when affirmations begin to work. Every person reacts to them differently. The effect can occur after a short time or only after a few weeks. To get started, just try repeating your chosen affirmations every day for at least 14 days. See it as a little experiment, let it work, and then consciously notice the change.


How can I integrate positive affirmation into my everyday life?

You can use your positive affirmations:

  • Say it in your mind.

  • Learn them by heart.

  • Start your daily journal entry with this affirmation.

  • To sing.

  • Record and listen to the recording daily.

  • Install daily notifications as a reminder on your smart devices.

  • Say it out loud in front of the mirror, on your walk, in the car, etc.


Positive affirmations are a powerful tool for your personal growth and self-development. By regularly integrating positive thoughts and beliefs into our lives, we can actively strengthen our self-confidence, break negative thought patterns, and lead a fulfilling, happy life. Start integrating positive affirmations into your everyday life today and see how your life will change for the better after just 14 days.


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